Frequently Asked Questions

I offer sessions for both individuals and couples, ranging from single ceremonial immersions and multi-day retreats to an extended series of hands-on somatic intimacy work. My practice weaves together sexological bodywork, sacred sexuality, de-armoring, relational healing, plant medicine, and nervous system repair to support deep, embodied transformation.

If you're curious about what sessions may look like for you, explore the Eros Alchemy Sessions and Couples Eros Alchemy Sessions pages.

Alongside my beloved collaborator Rahi Chun, I co-facilitate Divine Union for Lovers—an online course for couples that stands alone as a transformational journey or can be integrated into our in-person, hands-on intimacy work.

We also offer retreats in Los Angeles and internationally, designed to awaken deeper intimacy, erotic embodiment, and soulful connection.

A sexological bodywork session is a guided, hands-on 1-way touch experience that supports you in reconnecting with your body, exploring your erotic landscape, and reclaiming your pleasure on your own terms. These sessions are consent-based, body-led, and deeply attuned to your intentions—whether you're working through blocks, awakening desire, or learning to feel more.

You’ll remain in clear communication throughout as we explore touch, breath, sound, and movement to support nervous system regulation, release stored tension, and activate your sensual and sexual vitality. Sessions may include pelvic touch through mapping, de-armoring, and ecstatic erotic massage —always guided by your boundaries and readiness.

This is not talk therapy—it's experiential learning through the body. We don’t just talk about sexuality and intimacy—we practice it together in a space of presence, reverence, and trust.

Touch in sessions may include contact with the full body—including the pelvis—guided by your intention, clear consent, and ongoing, embodied communication. We work with a spectrum of practices such as restorative attuned touch, pleasure mapping, ecstatic erotic massage, and de-armoring to awaken sensation, release tension, and deepen your connection to your body’s innate wisdom.

I also hold space for two-way touch practices, using the framework of the Wheel of Consent, which supports you in discerning what you want, what you’re willing to give, and how to receive with clarity and sovereignty. These practices are powerful tools for re-patterning dynamics around giving, receiving, and boundaries—creating space for deeper relational integrity and embodied choice.

All touch is guided by your body’s pace and readiness. Nothing is ever rushed or forced. Your nervous system sets the tempo, and every step of the way is attuned to what feels safe, true, and alive for you.

Keep reading for more detailed descriptions of the various types of touch containers we may explore:

Resorative Attuned Touch

A gateway back to saftey, trust, and connection with the body.

This is not about fixing or forcing. It's a practice of deep listening—of meeting the body exactly where it is, with presence, reverence, and patience. Together, we listen for how your body wants to be met. Through this kind of engagement—on the body's own terms—we gently invite the release of chronic holding patterns and the softening of proctective tension woven through the tissues.

Touch becomes a language of regulation and repair. It can support the nervous system in shifting from guarded hypervigilance or collapse into a more resourced, responsive state—where pleasure, breath, and aliveness begin to return.

Attuned touch reminds the body that it is safe to feel, to receive, and to belong.

Pleasure Mapping

A practice of returning home to your body as a source of wisdom, joy, and aliveness.

We explore the landscape of your body —inviting you to discover what feels good, what feels safe, and where is there numbness or resistance? 

This isn’t about performance or goals. It’s about slowing down enough to listen to the body’s subtle cues—its yes, its no, its maybe. We explore sensation, arousal, and boundaries through a lens of curiosity and reverence, creating space for new pathways of connection and empowerment to emerge.

For many, this practice also brings awareness to areas that have been numb, disconnected, or touched without consent in the past. By meeting these places with compassion and choice, the body begins to reclaim its voice—repatterning its relationship to touch, pleasure, and power.

Together, we map not just physical pleasure—but the emotional and energetic terrain of your erotic aliveness.

This is the work of remembering that pleasure is your birthright. And that your body holds the map.

Ecstatic Erotic Massage

A full-bodied, somatic journey into your erotic energy—held in a sacred, intentional container. It is not about performance or climax. It is about presence, sensation, and aliveness.

This work invites you to explore erotic touch as a healing force—one that can awaken pleasure, release shame, rewire old patterns, and help you inhabit your body more fully. It supports you in discovering what turns you on, what opens you, what brings you into deeper connection with yourself—and where there may be contraction, numbness, or guardedness that’s ready to soften.

Through attuned, consent-based touch, I guide you into a state of deep embodiment, where erotic energy can expand beyond the genitals, becoming a current that moves through your entire system. This may include light, energetic contact or deeper, intentional touch—always in dialogue with your nervous system and inner truth.

You are met exactly where you are, with reverence and care. There is no goal other than allowing your body to lead. In this space, pleasure becomes a pathway to healing, empowerment, and returning to your innate wholeness.

De-armoring

Armor is the protective patterning—both conscious and unconscious—that forms in our physical, emotional, and energetic bodies. It develops in response to unprocessed experiences, unmet needs, or moments when it wasn’t safe to feel. These holding patterns once served to protect us—but over time, they can become walls that block us from receiving love, sensation, and connection.

Armor shows up as tension, numbness, emotional shutting down, chronic bracing, or difficulty fully inhabiting the body. It’s the body’s way of saying, “It wasn’t safe then… so it’s not safe now.”

De-armoring is a gentle and powerful process of unwinding these patterns—bringing breath, sound, presence, and intentional touch to the areas where your body has been guarding. As the armor softens, what often emerges is sensation, emotion, and life force—your natural vitality returning.

This work supports:

• Restoring sensation and flow in the body

• Reclaiming access to deep pleasure

• Releasing emotional blocks and integrating any traumatic experiences

• Expanding your capacity to feel, receive, and connect

De-armoring isn’t about pushing or forcing anything open—it’s about listening to what the body is ready to release, and meeting it with presence, patience, and care. It’s a return to aliveness. To intimacy. To the truth that your body is safe to feel again.

Yes. I weave pleasure-oriented bodywork and plant medicine together as complementary healing modalities. Both are powerful on their own—and when consciously combined, they can catalyze deep somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and radical personal expansion.

Each person’s journey is unique. I take great care to build trust and safety, attune to your experience with somatic bodywork and plant allies, and assess your nervous system capacity, intentions, and boundaries. Sessions may include non-psychoactive plants used to support embodiment, emotional opening, and pleasure.

Some sessions may incorporate gentle doses of psychoactive plant allies alongside sexological bodywork, de-armoring, or intimacy coaching, while others unfold in dedicated ceremonial containers for those called to higher doses.

Every offering is trauma-informed, heart-led, and guided by deep reverence for your body and the living intelligence of the plants.

Not at all. Whether you’re just beginning to listen to your body or are already exploring your erotic path, whether you’ve been journey with plants for years or are just beginning to follow a curiousity - I meet you where you are. That said, this work requires you to take self-responsibility and the ability to sense into your body’s emotions, sensations, and boundaries.

While my work is deeply therapeutic and healing, I am not a licensed therapist. I am a somatic psychedelic practitioner, intimacy guide, and sexological bodyworker working outside the traditional therapy model.

This is hands-on, experiential work. We don’t just talk about intimacy and sexuality—we practice it through embodied exploration. You’ll be guided through direct experiences of conscious touch, sensation, and connection that rewire patterns and awaken your aliveness.

Many people come to this work with past experiences of sexual or relational pain. My practice is trauma-informed and somatically grounded, with a deep reverence for your pacing and sovereignty. We work with your body’s own intelligence—never pushing, never overriding. Many clients experience profound trauma healing and relational mending through this work.

If you're in the early stages of trauma recovery, this work can be powerful, but it's most supportive when you’re ready to feel, receive, and engage. I don’t work with people in accute crisis and if your currently living in dissasocative states, I recommend starting with a modality like Neuro-effective Touch or Somatic Experiencing before working with me.

I work with all bodies, genders, and orientations. In my work with couples and partners - sacred union comes in infinite forms. I welcome queer couples, polyamorous dynamics, and non-traditional partnerships. The work is tailored to your unique love constellation.

I identify as a cis-queer-woman, have lived experience with polyamorous dyamics, and resonate with relationship anarchy.

I work out of a private residence in Santa Monica, California. For clients traveling from out of town, we’ll co-create a custom immersive experience—often a multi-day journey that weaves together bodywork, intimacy coaching, and sacred ritual.

I occasionally travel for custom immersives and retreats both domestically and internationally for clients beyond Los Angeles. If you're called to work together but not based in L.A., reach out and we can explore the possibilities.

Sessions typically last 2 to 5 hours, and are body-led—not clock-driven. We listen for when your system feels complete. You’ll never be rushed, and always supported to integrate what arises.

Most individual clients invest between $1,800 and $20,000, depending on the length, depth, and scope of your journey. This may include:

• A single multi-hour hands-on ceremonial session with prep and integration

• A series of hands-on intimacy sessions

• A multi-day immersive retreat

• A plant ceremony with prep and integration

• Or a combination of any of the above

For couples working with both Rahi and I, investments can range from $2,000 to $40,000.

The range in possibilities reflects the deeply personal, high-touch nature of the work.

You can read more about individual sessioners here and couples sesssions here.