Eros Alchemy Sessions for Couples
Couples intimacy coaching, sacred sexuality, and somatic healing for soulful, ectstatic connection offered in Santa Monica, CA.
Whether you are just beginning to open new channels of connection, or are seasoned partners ready to deepen your bond, these sessions offer a space to explore your intimacy and erotic connection. To deepen your sexual relationship more fully, in body, heart, and soul.
I create a space where you can reconnect and shift how you relate to one another. Through the body, through presence, and through touch. We work with the patterns shaping your connection, including how you meet each other in desire and pleasure. So something new becomes possible between you.
Together, we explore:
Feeling safe to be real with each other
Expressing needs, boundaries, and desires with clarity and care
Giving and receiving touch that is attuned, nourishing, and alive
Meeting one another in vulnerability without losing yourself
Unwinding relational patterns that no longer serve your connection
Practicing new ways of being together, grounded in truth, trust, and choice
My approach blends somatic intimacy coaching, consent-based touch practices, and the deep intelligence of the nervous system to support emotional repair, erotic connection, and embodied trust. Sessions may include practices such as the Wheel of Consent, pleasure and erotic mapping, sacred sensual rituals, and, where appropriate, plant medicine. Always tailored to your unique dynamic and intentions.
This work supports couples in:
Reigniting or expanding sensual and erotic connection
Navigating differences in desire, boundaries, or communication
Healing ruptures and rebuilding trust
Deepening emotional and relational intimacy
Creating more sustainable, satisfying ways of being together
Reclaiming intimacy as an ongoing, embodied practice
Whether monogamous, open, poly, or undefined, every relationship holds its own intelligence. I welcome all lovers, in all configurations, to explore the unique alchemy that exists between them.
Wondering if this work is right for you?
If you'd like to better understand the philosophy behind this approach to intimacy, these articles are a great place to begin:
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Underneath everything we do together is a set of skills most couples were never taught.
I don't teach these as concepts. I teach them as lived practice, something you come to feel, inside your body and between each other.
Slowing Down. Pausing. Noticing. Accepting. Trusting. Valuing. Attuning. Communicating.
Simple on the surface. Confronting in practice.
Because these are the exact moments most couples lose each other. Speeding past what's actually being felt, dismissing signals, closing when things get vulnerable, performing instead of relating.
In our work together, we return to those moments.
We slow them down. We stay inside them. We practice remaining connected in real time, especially when it would be easier to pull away.
This is how trust rebuilds. This is how desire deepens. This is how intimacy becomes something you can actually sustain, together.
Over time, these become skills you carry into your relationship, your communication, your conflict, your sex, and your life. And they change how much pleasure you're able to share.
Are you ready to expand your erotic connection, discover what your body is truly capable of, and feel safe exploring and satiating your desires together?
The Container
I offer couples sessions on my own, as well as with my creative and life partner Rahi Chun.
We are the co-creators of Divine Union and are deeply honored to hold space for couples ready to transform their intimacy and connection.
When you choose to work with both of us, you are held by two practitioners at once attuning to each of you individually, and to the dynamic unfolding between you.
We offer an integrative path for couples ready to deepen intimacy, heal entrenched patterns, and embody new ways of loving through the body, the heart, and the nervous system.
Rahi is a somatic sex educator devoted to restoring sexual sovereignty, safety, and wholeness. He brings a depth of presence, technical mastery, and embodied knowledge drawing from modalities including NeuroAffective Touch, Chi Nei Tsang, Karsai Nei Tsang, TRE, the Wheel of Consent, Sexological Bodywork, and his internationally respected work in genital de-armoring. His expertise in early touch imprinting helps couples understand and shift the roots of their relational and erotic patterns.
I bring a deeply relational and embodied approach to intimacy woven from somatic practice, sexological bodywork, plant medicine, and years of study with Indigenous wisdom keepers. My work is rooted in emotional attunement and a nuanced understanding of the nervous system, sensing what is happening beneath words, in the body, and in the space between partners. I create relational containers where vulnerability feels safe and shame can soften, allowing new ways of relating to emerge.
Together, we hold a space that honors structure and flow, depth and play, technique and intuition. Whether working with one partner at a time or guiding shared practices, you are supported by two seasoned practitioners devoted to your connection, healing, and evolution as lovers.
This is more than a session. It’s a place where your relationship can shift, and something new can begin between you.
Divine Union for Lovers
Self-Paced Virtual Course Offering
If you and your partner are hungry for this work but find yourself limited by distance, scheduling or a preference for privacy we encourage you to explore the Divine Union for Lovers Virtual Course.
The course allows for self-paced asynchronous connection with the material allowing for deep engagement that meets you both where you are.
Some transformations happen best in the privacy of your own space. The course allows you both to access the content in a way that allows for you to fit it into your lives in the most accessible way possible.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Couples Eros Alchemy Sessions are immersive, somatic-based experiences that blend intimacy coaching, sacred sexuality practices, consent-based touch, and optional plant medicine to support deeper emotional, sensual, and spiritual connection. These sessions help partners reconnect through the body, nervous system, and heart.
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These sessions are for couples of all orientations and configurations—whether monogamous, open, or exploring new relational dynamics—who are ready to heal patterns, deepen erotic connection, and cultivate soulful, ecstatic intimacy.
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Unlike talk-based therapy, these sessions use somatic practices and experiential learning. You won’t just talk about intimacy—you’ll feel and practice it in real time. Through guided touch, embodiment practices, and intentional rituals, you learn to communicate, touch, feel, and love more fully in the present moment.
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These sessions support:
Enhancing pleasure and erotic expression
Deepening physical and energetic connection
Healing sexual blocks or past relational trauma
Rebuilding trust and emotional safety
Improving communication and boundaries
Exploring new edges in sacred intimacy and sensuality
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Sometimes touch is only exchanged between you and your partner, deepening your intimate connection. Other times, touch may be offered by me, as a practitioner of sexological bodywork and intimacy coaching, to support your process.
What occurs in the space will be decided between us all.
When you choose to work with both Rahi and me, couples have the unique opportunity to receive individual sessions simultaneously—each partner held in their own process—and then come back together to integrate, connect, and deepen the shared field of intimacy and trust. This creates a powerful arc of both individual and relational transformation.
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Sessions typically last 2–5 hours, with most couples engaging in a series of 3–6 sessions for meaningful transformation. I also offer multi-day immersive experiences and retreats.
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Working with Ariel offers a deeply attuned, soul-led space rooted in sensual awakening, relational healing, and embodied presence. When you choose to work with both Ariel and Rahi, you enter a powerful co-facilitated container that integrates complementary energies and perspectives—offering a full-spectrum experience of sacred intimacy, somatic sexual healing, and transformational intimacy coaching.
Their combined expertise in sexological bodywork, sacred sexuality, and nervous system regulation brings both technical precision and intuitive depth to every session.
Couples benefit from witnessing live demonstrations of embodied intimacy practices, offering felt-sense transmission and real-time guidance. You also have the option to receive simultaneous individual sessions—each partner working with either Ariel or Rahi—followed by integrative touch and connection rituals to deepen your shared erotic and emotional bond.
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The investment to work privately with Ariel, or with Ariel and co-facilitator Rahi Chun together, varies based on the length, depth, and scope of your journey. Most couples invest between $3,600 and $40,000 for private work. This may include a day-long immersive, a personalized series of hands-on somatic intimacy sessions, immersive multi-day retreats, or a curated combination of all three.
Every private experience is held within a larger container of care. You’ll be supported before, during, and after the in-person work through preparation calls, ongoing virtual communication, and integration sessions. This gives you space to arrive prepared, receive guidance as things arise, and integrate what unfolds into your relationship and everyday life.
This range reflects the high-touch, experiential and deeply intimate nature of Ariel’s offerings - which often include sacred sexuality work, sexological bodywork, intimacy coaching, plant medicine, and trauma-informed somatic healing.
When you choose to work with both Ariel and Rahi, you receive the benefit of two highly skilled practitioners who bring distinct yet complementary approaches to sexological bodywork, intimacy coaching, sacred sexuality, and somatic healing. Some couples receive individual sessions with Ariel and Rahi separately, then reunite for integrative practices that nourish their shared erotic and emotional bond.
We also offer a virtual self paced course Divine Union for Lovers for $997.