The Erotic Frontier:
Articles & Field Notes
These writings explore sexuality, intimacy, embodiment, relationships, power, and healing.
At their heart, they are all asking the same question:
What becomes possible when we learn to relate differently?
To our bodies. To desire. To pleasure. To each other. To power itself.
Some articles answer practical questions about intimacy, consent, embodiment, and sexual healing. Others offer a window into the relational work I do with individuals and couples through Eros Alchemy private sessions. Others follow the deeper threads that connect these experiences to the ways we live, love, create, and move through the world.
My hope is that these writings don't simply give you new ideas. I hope they help you ignite curiosity around your relationship with yourself.
How to Build Deeper Emotional and Sexual Intimacy: The Eight Pillars of Intimacy™
On how emotional and sexual intimacy are built, and the eight capacities that allow love, trust, and genuine connection to grow.
Why We Betray Ourselves in Relationships
On the reckoning we must have with ourselves if we want a deeper level of intimacy. The honest look at what we’ve participated in, what we’ve survived, and what we’ve carried growing up in an extractive, repressive, objectifying sexual culture.
What is Somatic Consent?
On why consent is more than a yes or no, and how learning to listen to the body transforms intimacy, boundaries, and connection.
If you'd like to continue exploring, you'll find more personal essays and ongoing reflections at The Erotic Frontier on Substack, where I publish new writing as it unfolds.