The Erotic Frontier:
Articles & Field Notes
These writings explore sexuality, intimacy, embodiment, relationships, power, and healing.
At their heart, they are all asking the same question:
What becomes possible when we learn to relate differently?
To our bodies. To desire. To pleasure. To each other. To power itself.
Some articles answer practical questions about intimacy, consent, embodiment, and sexual healing. Others offer a window into the relational work I do with individuals and couples through Eros Alchemy private containers. Others follow the deeper threads that connect these experiences to the ways we live, love, create, and move through the world.
My hope is that these writings don't simply give you new ideas. I hope they help you ignite curiosity around your relationship with yourself.
When Pleasure Brings Up Grief
Why can pleasure bring up grief, trauma, or numbness? A personal exploration of how erotic practice helped me reconnect with my body and expand my capacity for pleasure.
Healing From Sexual Abuse: What I Wish I’d Known About Reclaiming My Body, Intimacy, and Pleasure
A survivor’s reflections on healing from sexual abuse, rebuilding safety and trust in the body, and reclaiming intimacy, desire, and pleasure.
Why So Many Women Hide Their Sexuality
What my cervix had to teach me about nervous system safety, sexual shame, and what became possible when I stopped hiding my erotic self.
If you'd like to continue exploring, you'll find more personal essays and ongoing reflections at The Erotic Frontier on Substack, where I publish new writing as it unfolds.