The Erotic Frontier:
Articles & Field Notes
These writings explore sexuality, intimacy, embodiment, relationships, power, and healing.
At their heart, they are all asking the same question:
What becomes possible when we learn to relate differently?
To our bodies. To desire. To pleasure. To each other. To power itself.
Some articles answer practical questions about intimacy, consent, embodiment, and sexual healing. Others offer a window into the relational work I do with individuals and couples through Eros Alchemy private sessions. Others follow the deeper threads that connect these experiences to the ways we live, love, create, and move through the world.
My hope is that these writings don't simply give you new ideas. I hope they help you ignite curiosity around your relationship with yourself.
How To Feel More During Sex
On why feeling more during sex has less to do with technique than nervous system safety, presence, and learning to listen to your body.
Somatic Sexual Healing: How Eros Alchemy Supports Pleasure, Intimacy & Transformation
On what somatic sexual healing actually is, why the body has to be included, and how Eros Alchemy helps transform the patterns that keep us disconnected from ourselves and each other.
Men's Sexual Healing: What Happens in a Somatic Healing Session
On the kind of relational space most men have never experienced, and what happens when desire, shame, and tenderness are finally welcomed together.
Why Do I Feel Empty After Sex?
On the difference between performing pleasure and actually feeling it, and what it takes to stop feeding the patterns that keep us numb.
Why Doesn’t Sex Feel Good Anymore?
On the goal-oriented sex script we inherited, why it keeps so many of us disconnected, and what sex looks like when presence replaces performance.
If you'd like to continue exploring, you'll find more personal essays and ongoing reflections at The Erotic Frontier on Substack, where I publish new writing as it unfolds.